It is not necessary that everyone at your work place likes you and treat you like their kid. It is a work place and we are professional. Your Boss may like you or may not like you.. Even you would have been a puppet at times and feel the whole world is with you when your Boss listens..Not always !!!! This will happen.. It is their professional responsibility to listen to you.. So too much annoying can always leads to friction in a work relationship.. Small things like this left unnotice may create a problem for you.. May be bigger. So, communication is the key to break these barriers and enhance a smoother work relationship..
There is nothing like your a good or bad.. It is about like and dislike..If your Boss likes you, then you are good..Your welcome..If he doesnt then the door is always open. Likes and dislikes in a professional world is like standing on knife. So, the Better soft skills ( I would term it soap....) you are in... you will be welcomed..For what about guys who are raw.. difficulty for them..For those guys, think of the below points.. if you are in.. in these points, Then try to correct yourself.. to withstand.. Darwin 's fittest..
Seven Things your Boss Hates about you
1. Constant complaints about not being appreciated or recognized enough.
2. Lack of follow-through on specific tasks and requests.
3. Bad manners toward co-workers or, worse, customers.
4. Sloppy workspaces and personal appearance, which could lead to sloppy work.
5. Lack of communication with and about clients; poor messaging.
6. Too much personal use of Internet or phone during work time.
7. Crying when stressful scenarios or inevitable conflicts arise.
1. Constant complaints about not being appreciated or recognized enough.
Have yourself a constant monitor, Meaning - a kind of timesheet where you accomplished these many works and review them periodically.. whether you get appreciated or rewarded, think of at the end of week, what you could have done better.. what went wrong.. During the process, people will get to know.. your talent.. If you want to complain, go talk to your close friends whom you can trust..and then back bite. or write them in diary and forgot.. Take a break.. day off. or something to get the right mindset.. Right mindset will always important, you may be a geek.. but without this right attitude, your digging a pit for yourself..
2. Lack of follow -through on specific tasks and requests
Set your self a timeline for a task and request and wait patiently for a people to respond.. give a day or so. then send a remainder. we can always add a remainder to a important follow up mail in our outlook..so that you as well the person need to respond will get a remainder..
3. Bad manners towards co-workers or worse,customers
Please be advice yourself about work-ethics. you can very well express NO in a polished way.. instead of behaving badly to your potential stalk holders for your future in a project/account.. Be flexible is the key.. It might take you places.
4. Sloppy workspaces and personal appearance, which could lead to sloppy work.
There is a old saying about cleanliness as a habit.. The place surround you, the dress you wear, the food you eat will always depict your character. Hence it is advised to have a proper table manners, appropriate wear and appearance... should look good..
